P: Is this why, when I gently point out the ego-mind in relatedness, the very ground of even long-standing relationships seems to shake?
MQ: Yes. By using conscious-free-will, you create this awakened choice: to sustain conditioning as it appears in your relationships; or invite the harmony of your new perspective to emerge. Work on your interest in releasing the unhealthy ego marginally ahead of your desire of sustaining it.
P: So the ‘shaking ground’ is the unhealthy-ego realizing it has been discovered?
MQ: Yes.
EVOLUTIONARY POINTER: It is simply beyond the comprehension of the unhealthy-ego that long-term, committed and intimate relationships can also be conflict-free.
MQ: Consciousness has often been derailed for so long that purely personal anguish is considered to be part and parcel of human relationships. Nothing, however, can be further from the truth. The malicious ego doesn’t want anything to change, let alone a relationship that is a source of emotional and psychological conflict.
P: And what if my interest to redevelop the basis for a relationship is met with opposition over long periods of time?
MQ: Often, your gentle suggestions, compassionate requests, heart-felt pleas, rational insistence and even direct ultimatums are to no avail. But, don’t dismay! It is possible to maintain a relationship, so that it is irrelevant to your awakening. We will look as this shortly.
P: And if my suggestions to edit concealed conditioning from my relationships go unnoticed?
MQ: This frequently occurs with those at lower levels of consciousness. The option, however, to continue nurturing that part of the ego-mind in those interactions will still be yours. As always, be tender in your approach with those who are suffering unknowingly, yet at the same time are unwilling to consider the possibility of embracing authenticity.
( © - "The Uncommon Path" by Irish author Mick Quinn.)
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